Tuesday, November 15, 2016

Personalities

Just a heads up before you read: this blog post is not meant to put people into categories that divide us. This is just my observation of people to simplify their complexity. Also to make people more aware of each other. So keep that in mind while you read.

There are some people who have personalities that come to a point. They can pierce through social circles and hang out with anybody and everybody. But others have personalities that are rounded. They must be welcomed into social circles or they get left behind and forgotten.

Both have their weaknesses and both have their strengths. If your personality comes to a point, make sure you join groups of people that will enhance your life for the better. Choose to surround yourself with people who truly love you. It's easy to think you've got a million friends until the moment no one is there for you when you need them the most.

If your personality is rounded, that's no excuse to isolate yourself. You are just as worth knowing as those who make themselves known. So make sure you are putting yourself out there even if it's hard for you. You will find your place and there will be people who welcome you into their social group. You are not alone. If all the rounded personality people joined together, we'd be massive. But life isn't all about having lots of friends.

Life is wonderful when you can count all your close friends on one hand. If I am in need of anything, I know who I can count on to always be there for me. This is what makes my life beautiful. 
I know that I have a rounded personality. It's harder for me to enter new social circles. It's hard for me to find my place within groups because I need to have a place within a group. I sometimes envy those who have pointed personalities, but then I am reminded of those that love me for just being me and I'm blessed.

If you know someone who is less likely to put themselves out there, acknowledge them and let them know you love them. Cause trust me, random bursts of love go a long way.